Last week it was reinforced to me that possibly right after
food, water and my family, the next thing on my list of needs is indeed YOU,
the Black Man. It is dire at this point. It has surpassed a want and it has
become eminent that I have YOU. But guess what? I’m not
selfish. I’m traditional and futuristic at the same time so I am beyond willing
to share YOU. In the immortal words of Snoop Dogg and Korupt, “It ain’t
no fun if my homies can’t have none.” Besides, what you have to offer is much
more than what I can use alone. Yet, here lies the problem. I understand the
urgency of my need for YOU but so many of YOU do
not understand your tremendous importance in this equation. See I’m trying to
solve for x here and there is no way I can get the correct answer without YOU,
the Black Man. Try as I may, but it will not add up without YOU.
See, last week quite a few things happened that made me
realize that I have to make YOU realize why I need YOU so
badly. I run a youth program and my babies are from “at risk” communities. I
have them a few times during the week and I notice they are lacking in many
areas. They lack nowhere in potential. However, many of them do not receive
enough time and attention to help cultivate their potential and bring it to
fruition. After doing activities with them about setting goals I had to
reprimand one of them for speaking negatively about her friends. A few minutes
later I found this same little pumpkin sitting off to the side crying. When I
asked her what was wrong she got up and hugged me and through teary eyes she
told me that she has a problem. She said she gets angry and says bad things and
she doesn’t know how to control herself. I asked this little third-grader what
she believed it was that made her so angry. She told me she was mad because her
father left her and it